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Yaa Yaa
Now I ask you parents what do you want from the program for your kids?
Do you want fun? Do you want competition? Do you want development? Value for your rego cost?
Winning comes with development, if Australia keeps going the way they are going in football we are going to fall further behind the rest of the world. Just take a look overseas, or even better have a look at Australian teams at youth level. You know they keep scores and play for trophies overseas at this age group yeah?
Do you know what happens to kids around this age group that think they are a good side and then travel for tournaments overseas? They get embarrassed thatÂ’s what, because our mentality is different to theirs, we are happy to not hurt kids feelings by not keeping scores, we are happy to not have semi finals etc, we donÂ’t have the winning mentality of overseas countries and we are falling behind.
Kids need to learn to win and lose, itÂ’s part of life. When they grow up and go for a job will they get the job because they tried? Or will the person that performs best get the job?
I for one donÂ’t baby little billy after a loss, I tell him he wasnÂ’t good enough and needs to work harder and be better, heÂ’s not going to get a blue ribbon for trying because I donÂ’t want to hurt his feelings.
In schools they try not to give ribbons at carnivals so kids feelings arenÂ’t hurt, are we hurt from not winning back then dads?
But they proceed to give out awards at assembly for English and math?
So everyoneÂ’s a winner in sport but not in math and English, only the smart ones are winners hmmm