I just love how anyone like me who loves their wife and is genuinely best friends with said wife is under the thumb.
Also my kids are little legends, they become what you make them. Raise them as friends and you will love spending time with them.
I love going out with "the guys" but i love spending time with my family a hell of a lot more!
But i am probably wrong!
WE DON'T DO WALKING AWAY !
I would bet that leftrightout would ask his Mrs if it's ok if she has the kids while LRO heads out for beers etc. And he'd probably ask permission to spend parts/all of him & hers shared bank account that they have worked to save together for whatever purpose - particularly when spending it on things that relate to LRO only, and not to their house/family/etc.
You've really spiralled out of control there, LRO. Fix your shit, because it obviously impacts me enough to strike so many nerves to go on an epic rant about it.
OK
Fvcken hell....
At first I thought Membah was just trying to gee pv4 up..
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I dunno what the memba is smoking though just because you have a wife and kids doesn't mean you "forgo your freedom as a man"
Just find a chick that's happy for you to still have these freedoms. You don't all of a sudden become a little bitch because you have kids.
Better yet combine it. I personally love going to Bunnings coked up to my eyeballs at 8am Sundy morn.
Hey man look I kind of agree with the Members (clumsily put) larger point of people feeling unhappy because of controlling relationships.
But yeah that logic should also apply to ****tards who think they can own a woman.
If you lads are cool cool with your setup then just be happy.
But c'mon we’ve all got mates who are scared of their wives and it’s ****ing sad (hilarious, but sad).
Love the attitude of going to Bunnings coked up to the eyeballs
I take it you don't need to ask your wife to do this ??
Blokes like you I am all for
The ones with the balls to do things their way without having to run it past the wife as they have given away the freedom to make their own calls on things
Na man. I still ask my wife if she minds if I do something. Only because I give a **** about her feelings and if I'm doing something that hurts her then **** that shit. Cause yanno we in a mutual relationship were we both equal cause it's nice to make sure someone else is happy outside of youself. But yes my mrs knows I'll always do what I please and that's what she loves about me. Just like I love when she does it in reverse. I'll bring our daughters up the same way and If they come across blokes like yourself then they'll be "assertive" enough to tell you to jam your "assertiveness" up ya japeye.
I think you've just swayed way too far. I'm all for making yourself happy first as you end up being the best possible person you can be for the other person. But if it means youre a twat and a general dickhead then laters.
I also do not agree with you're whole competitive I win relationship bullshit. Isn't much of a relationship if you're competing at all.
This thread recently, more than any other, has shown some people's true colours, and added weight to the value of their relevance/perspective to other debates.... or for some, removed any value altogether.
Winding each other up, or genuinely expressing your views.... either way, there's been some pretty outdated values towards the role and value of women in relationships expressed here.
While I'm all for open discussion about different relationship structures, inferring anyone is less of a man based on the structure of their relationship is beyond acceptable and is without question playing the man not the ball (no puns intended).
If discussion can't remain open without such inferences bans will happen.
Why?
Because if you infer that a man in a relationship who is not in control of his wife or discusses actions impacting on both before acting is less of a man, you assume then the wife is not fulfilling her role in the relationship and infers then that she is less of a woman - and if you want to make that leap, you're offending my wife and plenty of others, and as such, I'll "man up" and do all in my abilities to defended the honour of the woman I love.
If that's too PC lefty or clumsily stated, I'll just use the ban hammer.
the dinosaurs didnt die off because of us yelling at them or beating them with sticks*.
they died off because they couldnt survive the changes in environment.
im happy here waiting out the apocalypse on Plague Island.
*ok so prob cro-magnum Griff killed them all with his awesomeness but my point still stands