It’s kind of exemplified here in this thread isn’t it?
A few compliments and good accounts of a referees performance and general interaction with players. Good positive feedback and maybe what we need more of to help change that relationship between referees and players/coaches. (I say “help”, because referees can only do so much, it’s up to the players and coaches to do their fair share as well in terms of respect and lack of carry on).
Then you get a few snide remarks in response to the comments that make you wonder why you bothered.