
Originally Posted by
Bremsstrahlung
Where in the rulebook does it say you cannot offer an explanation. Sometimes an explanation on what the foul you gave can help educate the player, or at least give an explanation as to why you have a decision based on what you say. There's many different ways to referee a game, there's different personalities.
You say the people that are doing it don't have the heart, don't have the personality or whatever else you said...where are all the people that do? I don't see any of them lining up to give it a crack?
How do you get these people to give it a crack?
For me you're better of trying to keep and develop the people that are willing to give it a go, in the game. Half of the problem isn't even with the players. It's the crowds. It's the opinion that they pay there money so they can verbally abuse whoever they want.
The best referees don't always make the correct decisions but they keep the players safe, they admit their mistakes, they liase well With players. Communication goes both ways. Can you imagine the uproar of a referee said to a player, "you are the worst striker I've ever seen, you are a real c.... Learn to kick a ball properly"....