Na man. I still ask my wife if she minds if I do something. Only because I give a **** about her feelings and if I'm doing something that hurts her then **** that shit. Cause yanno we in a mutual relationship were we both equal cause it's nice to make sure someone else is happy outside of youself. But yes my mrs knows I'll always do what I please and that's what she loves about me. Just like I love when she does it in reverse. I'll bring our daughters up the same way and If they come across blokes like yourself then they'll be "assertive" enough to tell you to jam your "assertiveness" up ya japeye.
I think you've just swayed way too far. I'm all for making yourself happy first as you end up being the best possible person you can be for the other person. But if it means youre a twat and a general dickhead then laters.
I also do not agree with you're whole competitive I win relationship bullshit. Isn't much of a relationship if you're competing at all.






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