
Originally Posted by
plague
i think i needed to have friends to have a 'friendship group' right?
serious though, you raise a valid point. I've always been in trouble for questioning peoples statements. from getting kicked out of class for challenging a lawyers ethics to telling my boss on the first day of my first job that i could do his job better than him. im what you would class as 'socially awkward' as i have no ability to small talk and if someone says something that i don't understand i ask them for an explanation and if im not satisfied with their answer i ask them again and again until i either accept it or they punch me in the face.
having said that, a lot of these statements from the above posts are comments I've heard time and time again over the past few years and i just ask for an explanation in to that line of thinking. and i like steves posts, and think he's a good bloke to engage with. steves posts aren't just steves thinking, a lot of people are of the same opinion and i just want to know why.
when someone posts something like the lgbt one i was genuinely concerned. but a bit of reading gave me a satisfactory answer. i relayed that back to steve because i thought it was a valid balancing point to his. if he believes it then great, and if he doesnt then thats ok too. but we've both had our say and im cool with it.
i 'argue' with you too, but don't mistake it for me screaming 'youre wrong' about anything (same with Dunster/Mr Fish etc). ill argue a point but i also don't know everything so if i pick up something along the way then thats good for me.
im not too sure about your 'self validation' point. if you think any of my explanations are false or misleading, then im all good for you to pick me up on it. i think the above stuff was pretty easily explained though.
(and yes i know i used the word 'explain' and its variants too much in the above post and i apologise).